Sometimes when we are going through a difficult circumstance, we can only think of one thing: "Get me out of this!" This passage in the book of James teaches about what it means to grow up spiritually. When a baby wants to get out of its crib, it screams to have someone come remove it. He or she has not thought about why it is there: it needs to sleep, it needs a safe place to be, etc. There is no wisdom about the situation.
James 12 My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, 3 knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. 4 But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing. 5 If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.
"If we are going to turn trials into triumphs, we must obey four imperatives: count (1:2), know (1:3), let (1:4, 9-11), and ask (1:5-8). Or, to put it another way, there are four essentials for victory in trials: a joyful attitude, an understanding mind, a surrendered will, and a heart that wants to believe." -Warren Wiersbe.3. Let -- A Surrendered Will
It's easy to be patient when things are going good and times are simple. How will we acquire patience in times of trouble, stress, need or anger? This passage doesn't tell us to try harder, it tells us to give up. Just surrender to the hand of God in it.
God cannot build character in our lives if we don't cooperate with Him. Sometimes we resist Him, and He disciplines us. What God is looking for is submission and surrender. No matter what we do, we are going to go through trials. However, we can go through them with surrendered wills, accepting God's will willingly or we can go through them argueing with God the whole time. Sometimes we act like spoiled children who are not getting their way.

Babies need to be weaned from breast-feeding, then the bottle. They may cry at first, but they know their mother still loves them. God uses trials to wean us away from childish things.
4. Ask -- A Believing Heart
The people James was writing to weren't praying right. If we are going through difficulties that God has allowed, we shouldn't be praying, "God get me out of this!" We should be asking Him for wisdom. Wisdom is needed so that we don't waste this opportunity to grow in maturity. Wisdom is the answer that we need when we are crying out to God, "This doesn't make any sense!!"
We are told in this passage not only what to ask for but how to ask -- in faith. God wants to give us wisdom, and He won't scold us for asking for it. Unbelief can prevent us from receiving the wisdom we're asking for.
6 But when you ask him, be sure that your faith is in God alone. Do not waver, for a person with divided loyalty is as unsettled as a wave of the sea that is blown and tossed by the wind.Waves are up and down. They get moved by every gust of wind. They don't stand firm in anything.
Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of men in their deceitful scheming. - Ephesians 4:14 (NIV)James started this section with joy and ends it with joy. "Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him" (1:12). We will be rewarded when we endure trials. Outlook determines outcome. It all depends on how we are looking at our trials.
If we patiently endure, there will be a crown. The reward is greater maturity, glory to God. It wouldn't really help us to remove the tests. God helps by making the trials work for us. Satan hopes to interfere by making the tests tear us down instead of build us up.
The crown of life goes to the Christian who loves. It is because we love God that we know we can trust Him. We can surrender our will and stop trying to change our circumstances to fit our will. We can surrender and obey. We're not going to be slow to ask for help.











